Sitting on the Fences

Blueberry Muffins with Cranberry Jam

2010-05-31T08:08:00.000-07:00

I NEED TO SHOP MORE!!

last weekend went shopping with mom in gardens and klcc

i got... a nice white shorts and a pair of socks

need to get ready for uni, so one month left to scavenge my new wardrobe

so here are my shopping list:

1. PLIMSOLLS!!! NEED THEM REALLY BADLY, size 8

2. VINTAGE TEES!!! A MUST FOR MY WARDROBE size s-m

3. LEATHER BRACELET!!! i have discovered the importance of accessories =D

4. WHITE SKINNIES !!! damn hard to find them =/ waist- 29-31

5. COLOURED CARDIGAN!!! the more logical outerwear in this insanely hot country

YES!! i have a mission!! no.1 is the most crucial!! wish me luck =D

p.s : my birthday is on the 22nd of july.. not hinting anything, just a random fact about me tat i want to share with u guys =P

Rainbow Salad with Smelly Toufu

2010-05-24T08:40:00.000-07:00

Its been awhile, lots to update so be prepared for a long post..

I'll be tweeting and blogging more often from now on... so.. great news for those who are still reading my blog.

MAY the 17th

We said goodbye to our dear uncle , Mr Karven Kwan

who decided to fly all the way to NZ to study, blardy fool =/

while at the airport, she was like "dun cry, i m not dying" hahahaha ='(

oh guess what she decided to give me as a farewell present....

several packs of gummies candy (which i'v consumed within the 24 hours)

and...

The book which i borrowed her like donkey years ago....

Thanks to this book, she is now very effective in 7 ways.. ( i m funny , thank you very much)

Speaking of teenagers , karven is the first one among us to be a full adult D=

MAY 20th & 21st & 22nd

Happy birthday to my beloved RARA =D

took her out for korean dinner on the 20th, kimchi was good =)

reminder : get a better lighter

on the 21st, went over to her house party, i still owned it in pictionary =P

pictures will be posted once available =)

22nd was our 7th month being together =) unfortunately we couldn't go out to celebrate as after going out for 2 consecutive nights, my traveling visa expired =(

will make it up to u okay? loves and hearties =)

Finally finishing my payment for my Monash application. My mom decided to make a lasting first impression to the office by attempting to demand the application fee (rm100) to be waived because we paid my fees ( rm 13k) a day before their open day... fantastic

oh i have gotten a new laptop for uni , toshiba protege m900 .. and also..

look what i got =)

super mini "gym"

borrowed it from my uncle and also ji siang (the small gray ones)

damn semangat but i have a feeling that months from now i might be looking back at this post laughing... but oh well =P

I NEED MY Y-3's T_T

okay, tat is all...

story of the day:

i had a stomah ache this afternoon, decided to take chinese medication to soothe my raging bowels, i think those pills were expired.. super bowel detox therapy commences...

moral of the story : consuming expired ancient chinese medicine will have the reverse effect

Steamed Toufu with Fresh Leafy Salad

2010-04-26T23:26:00.000-07:00

its been awhile people....
so much has happened over these months which includes :

1. I have finally registered in Monash U... in Sunway of course, not the one in Aus. =/

2. Celebrated 6th Monthiversary with my dearly beloved... =) drove her for the first time =)
almost banged another car in the housing area... hahaha had a great dinner at the Ship along with her... pictures are not available though as she deleted them =(

oh oh oh!! she got me some awesome pawsome rawsome presents for me =) thank u~ thats really sweet of you =) <3

3. speaking of sweet , and salty and fried and oily... i think my gluttonous eating habit and lack of exercise has finally caught up on me. did a blood test the other week, turns out i have a high level of cholesterol =(

if u think i am shitting with u, i assure u , i shit u not... here see for urself

total cholesterol :6.3 normal : <5.2
HDL cholesterol (the good ones) : 1.37 normal: >1.04
LDL cholesterol (bad ones) : 4.6 normal : <2.6

so.....
bye bye chicken skin , fried food, junk food, sugar, salt and watever tat is fun...... =(

4. borrowed a book from my uncle called Freakonomics , heard it awhile back ago, interesting book, if you have a sense of curiousity of what is the reasons behind mundane daily events, check it out!! =)

that is all~~

Banana Leaf Sea Bass with Kampung Sambal

2010-04-03T00:10:00.000-07:00

HOT!!!!!!!

ZEE TEMPERATURE IS KILLING ME T_T

beh tahan...

anyways pictures on jit's birthday celebration way back then...

seriously the weather nowadays are freaking abnormal

Kamal and new hair Jun-Elle =D

Went over to Pavillion's TGIF for dinner

After that we went over to a Jazz club called NoBlackTie

Good vibe, good environment, good music ...all was in a word...Good

swirl swirl swirl...

note: Sorry that i broke our promise... =(

I'll make it up to you okay? =)

love you~ *hearts *

Marshmallow Ice-Cream Cake

2010-02-22T07:24:00.000-08:00

Today is a very special day

as it is:

the Fourth year Zoe came into the world~

hahaha this was way back then~

oh and of cuz today is our Fourth monthiversary.... =)

p.s : we need to take more pictures together, need to update our pictures together abit =P

Wasabi Bread with Fresh Cut Onions

2010-02-19T21:43:00.000-08:00

Yesterday we said bye bye to Mr Jason LiM JJ

wish u all the best =)

hope u get to use the package we got for u *winks*

Grilled Wagyu Beef with Red Wine Sauce

2010-02-17T07:45:00.000-08:00

HEY...

i know its kinda late but happy chinese new year + valentine's day =)

damn clash wei this year and last year chinese new year...

this year ( valentine's day +chinese new year)

last year ( Chinese new year+ Uncle Karven's birthday + Shaun birthday)

lets hope next year wont clash with other important dates lar.. *fingers crossed*

last Friday went over to Joanne's place to celebrate her birthday =D

had lots of fun at the mahjong table!!

I M ON MAHJONG FIRE

those who are interested in learning mahjong feel free to contact me cuz i need someone to play with me too =)

well back on last Friday story.

On the way back from the party , Jason, Eric and myself suddenly decided to go KLCC to take pictures

Mr JJ Lim (future new zealand resident)

Mr E.T ( Future Monash Student and Single *winks*)

Yours Truly

This is KL at 1am

Did lots of camwhoring which includes some interesting jumpshots. pictures are on fb album

man its alot more tiring to do junp shots at 1am.

That is all...

Stuffed Pigeon with Raspberry Sauce

2010-02-14T08:06:00.001-08:00

I know its kinda late......

but happy birthday~

celebrated Uncle Karven's birthday over at bangsar's alexis...

Jit siang was shocked as he realised how old we are going to be this year

Priceless Expression of Veena

Karven with Jits huge camera and Veena doing some advance high speed sign language

Gotten Karven a Diana F+ , she was a happy girl

Reading the manual for operating the lomo cam....

took decent amount of pictures with it only to realise tat the "pictures" werent taken at all...

To Uncle Karven:

Probably the one person i know in the whole wide world who would curse like a madcow during the first few minutes of her birthday. I m going to effing miss you when u fly over to the place where they shot lord of the rings =( oh btw hope u remember to help me get a flashy striking solid colour cardigan =P hehhee

now here's a blast from the past:

Project I Lead You To Lead

2010-01-08T07:35:00.000-08:00

http://ileadyoutolead.blogspot.com

its done, along with the first chapter =)

pls visit often and give comment so i can improve my poor english literacy =)

Midori Lemon Lime with Berry Mix

2010-01-08T04:51:00.000-08:00

Today i feel sour....

oh from now on i shall use food to express my mood and blog..

Anyways, i guess i should let everyone know that my grandpa has been admitted into the hospital few days ago, but now he's feeling better when i visited him this early morning....... speaking of early morning, today i woke up early in attempt to make something nice for grandpa's breakfast but failed miserly =( then i found out from my dad that my grandparents favourite meal is macdonalds... Shocking Discovery!! , guess i dont really know my grandparents after all ...

As some of u know, i m going to pursue psychology for university, my father being a 2 year psychology student before transferring into IT, suggested tat i should read all these books while waiting for class to start.

Yup, being a psychology is all about communication and understanding people, so all of this should give me a clearer picture on what i m about to get myself into (8 years wei..no joke)

After each chapter i read, i m going to blog about it in my soon to be established blog, shall post the link once it is created =P wish me luck people, hope tat i wont tiba-tiba half way give up *fingers crossed*

On another note :

I DROVE FOR THE FIRST TIME THE OTHER DAY =) it was fun =) cant wait to start on my driving lessons

allrite, gotta start my psychology project =D

see ya

Grilled Sea Bass with Salted Seaweed Spice

2010-01-05T02:32:00.000-08:00

I m all black!!

burned by the scorching sun from the kayak trip with jason today

seriously, like several tones darker... =(

u know what? i just realised only like 3 people went kayak with me

it seems my 2 person kayak is not put into good use =/

so here are list of people who i want to bring kayak with me just at least once

1. Farah~~ of cuz =P

2. members of the JAKE ( in particular the K one.... dude b4 u go far far away, at least try once lar =( )

3. Jit Siang ( dun worry, u wont die by drowning/ hypothermia/ dehydration )

on another note...

recently after being pointed out by jun-elle....

i realised i have a snoring problem...

this has been further reinforced after today's kayak trip, i was sooo tired that i fell asleep...

then jason commented about the loudness about my snoring.. =(

any idea how to fix this ?

well that is all..

Bright Sky with Caesar Salad

2010-01-01T23:32:00.000-08:00

Happy new year everyone =D

The year of 2009 was an adventure for me, from leaving highschool , entering a whole new phase in my life (which includes turning legal, new friends, college, chicken rice every lunch, failing English and finally passing undang) and last but not least, having her entering my life =) .. yes 2009 was a blast. with 2010 staring me right in the face, i have to make lots of crucial decisions that would either make me or break me. Putting pressures aside, i shall stare back at 2010 with my happy go lucky, whimsical, slight idiotic smile =D take tat!!

Braised Toufu and Chicken Breast

2009-12-30T08:28:00.000-08:00

hello

me very happy nowadays

1. She's back =D
2. Me passed me undang.... after 3 attempts, i finally got it... =D (cue standing ovation )
3. Me got a drinking board game for me christmas present.... credits to JAKE =D
4. Me now in a mahjong craze..mahjong is good for the brain and the soul
5. The year is ending....hence a good new beginning is about to commence.... our future is bright...like the sky (rite elle? =P )
6. Like i said the year is ending , hence lots of this year good memories for me to flash back every now and then...nostalgia...a trend nowadays =D
7. Having countdown with my closest friends and her in the GARDENS.. huzzah

well that is all.....

MAGIC RABBIT CARWASH

2009-12-22T05:38:00.000-08:00

Two is better than one =D

MASSIVE OVERLOAD

2009-12-15T19:18:00.001-08:00

I M BACK!!!
not really lar... my com still in crashed mode
but i have a severe urge to update my poor dead blog....
so here's some interesting things tat happened to me........

1. i crashed my com way back then...
2. i FAILED MY UNDANG....TWICE!!! IN A ROW... BOTH 41!! damn FML situation
3. have been rotting at home doing absolutely nothing... except for the swimming for every now and then.....
4. watched AVATAR preview at pavillion with karven, jits and jason

it was good i guess.. nice CGs, storyline is good..... but for me the movie its a tad slow...
but i like the freaky animals and plants in the movie =D

5. i had 30 satays at 12am yesterday...i love my belly very much
6. SAM RESULT!!! I GOT A FOR ESL!!!! epic ironic..... and overall quite happy with my result =)
7. HELP here i come!! =)
8. thank u for ur support and help... i wouldn't have gotten this good result without u =D
8 cont. and please come back soon =(

that is all...
see u guys next time....

Over-pampered kids and parents???

2009-11-24T07:50:00.000-08:00

disclaimer : what i am about to say in this post could be written off as a spoiled rotten kid's ranting... but i dun give a hoot about it

Today i shall talk about one of the life's greatest duties : Parenting

First of all, i would like to give credit and upmost gratitude to all parents for their hardwork and efforts. Parenting ain't exactly a walk in the park, from changing the diapers to affording their college tuition fees, parents does it all, and some ( mostly ) have to do it for more than one child. And not only in terms of materialistic needs, parents also have to make sure children are well loved and emotionally well taken care of. So for that i would like to say THANK YOU, seriously, u guys doing a a good job keep up the good work =D

But of course , being a ungrateful youngster like myself, of course there are some issues.

People, have you guys ever heard your parents keep on ranting about" how lucky you guys are now in this time" and they are over pampering you? I 'm quite sure there are some who is quite familiar with this complain.

Well, in some ways , yes, we are over pampered by our parents. If you wanted toys , they will get it for you ; mobile phones , video games, computers , or my personal favourite, clothes and shoes. It cannot be denied that whenever we have demands, parents will at one point will submit to them. So yes, we are over pampered. but the question is why we are over pampered? was our parents over pampered as well? The answers lies at their capability to give and our capability to receive.

"To give and to receive" is the key aspect on this "over pampered" issue, here's the key idea:

"one's capability to receive is directly proportionate to one's capability to give"

Still can't grasp the concept? here's an example:

Picture this, back when our parents were children, their parents couldn't give much due to hard times and low income, low standard of living, blah blah blah.... hence they couldn't give much to our parents, hence they are "under pampered" hence their capability to receive is as limited as to their parents' ability to give.

Now with parents financial ability increases, they now have the capability to afford these demands hence they buy more stuff to the children than what their parents used to. and since they can afford to give more, proportionately we as children also demand for more and the cycle continues. Hence we are "over-pampered".

Now its not fair to say that it is completely either side's fault , it takes two to tango, both have their fair share of responsibility in this mess.

Should a children's wants is denied , it would be treated as an act of " parents no love me bohoo " by them, and it will result sadness of the children, creating an immense sense of guilt within parents. but whenever children's demands is meet , they will ask for more, creating a bigger dilema for parents. on the other hand, some parents resort to strict upbringing hence they will say no to every demands the child has made, leaving the children severely lack of parents affection.

All this resulting either an overpampered spoilt rotten little brat or a severely underpampered loveless child.

by now you guys probably are half dead or half asleep after reading to this point. for those who made it this far huzzah, its either my post here has captured your interest or you guys have really nothing to do. And now, i shall use this very same concept of pampering, applying on parents. (now this part I m really gonna sound like i m ranting.)

For a family with multiple children, there are bound to be some sort of favoritism. when parents says that they love each child equally i would like to say

BULLSHIT

and also, you know those kind of parents that always like to comparing you with other children.

"why cant you be as good as your sister/ brother? "

" why cant you be like uncle/aunty (insert name)'s son/ daughter ? "

yes indeed parents like to compare alot, and there is some unjust treatment, especially when parents handling siblings of different caliber.

case study 1 :

requirements to get a brand new phone

you : top 5 in your class

siblings : just dont fail

reason dished out by parents : "its already a very good effort by your siblings already, give her some credit"

case study 2 :

school attending for secondary education

you : government public school

siblings : private school

reason dished out by parents : " your siblings need better education so she can catch up with the others"

case study 3 :

punishment for disobeying or disrepecting authorities

you : corporal punishment with severe scolding

your siblings: nothing... maybe a little slightly volume elavated empty threats

reason dished out by parents: " you see you see, one of these days i am gonna severely punish your siblings"

my opinion : that day will never come.

Well u get the idea.. The reason of all this unjust, the reason why when your friend can party all night and not get scolded , whereas you getting buried by your parents when you missed your curfew ; the reason why your parents demands less for your other siblings and yet still rewards as much ( even more) ? It all comes down to that very same theory

"one's capability to receive is directly proportionate to one's capability to give"

It also applies to parents, when a children can give more let say good result, parents expects better or equivalent result the next time ; When a children is obedient, parents expects more obedience from them. In short, when a children has the ability to give more, the demand of parents towards to the children also increases. Resulting what i would like to call over-pampered parents. sounds logical right?

So when it all comes down, there are 2 things that we, as children or parents ,must keep in mind:

1) Humans are greedy , give them an inch they take a mile

2) Moderation is key whether in parenting the children or parenting the parents

well that is all i wanted to say, thank you for reading my thoughts. if you guys have some opinions on this, let me know =)

that is all, i m out....

Red Boxing

2009-11-22T22:26:00.000-08:00

after a long long long wait....

finally...

KARAOKE TIME!!!

yes along with jit siang, yuen shiong, rachel , keziah , joanne and urs trully we went karaoke!!

oh ya!! but a mere 3 hours singing frenzy was unable to satisfy my hunger for sing!!

i look surprisingly good in this pics =D

oh my next post!!

heheheh it was a good day =D

Save your last dance for me

2009-11-22T21:52:00.000-08:00

overdue post since forever....

anyways PROM was awesome, had lots of fun =)

MOS after party was unfortunately cut short due to transportation difficulties =(

everyone dressed up fabulously =D

especially one specific individual tat totally caught my attention the whole night =P

she lits up the whole ballroom as she steps in

It's like i took a crap but then dun feel relieved at all

2009-11-17T02:26:00.000-08:00

FINALS is finally over yet i dun feel relieved?

what is this??

PROM IS TOMORROW!! LOTS OF CAMWHORE AWAITS =)

CAN'T WAIT!! =p

This is it

2009-11-11T07:02:00.000-08:00

LAST SUBJECT TO GO BEFORE SAM IS OFFICIALLY OVER!!

huzzah!! this is good.... anyways today after psychology papers, we went over to pyramid to watch This is it =D it was our first date today.. considered lar... =P we enjoyed the journey to sunway pyramid today... it was quite an adventure =P

anyways for the movie:

it was an interesting documentary, seeing how MJ poured his heart out while preparing for his last curtain call concert.... i think its a huge major shame that he cant performed =( it would have been the concert of the century... =( overall i think its an enlightening documentary and MJ fans shld watch it... =D

secondly..

One Million Free Seats!!

people of the world!! free seats offered by Air Asia, airport tax need to pay lar of cuz... grab ur seats before its too late!!!

Next....

going to cut my hair later this week, and for those who doesnt know me, its a really big deal for me... i'm thinking short hairstyle but with long fringe...hmm.......

Home

2009-11-01T05:08:00.000-08:00

finals are tomorrow......and so my mind drifted away from the books.......presenting....

What I Want In My Home...

Tatami bedroom

Spice Garden in Balcony

(for cooking purposes)

Blackboard wall at my study room/ area

(epic cool to have it, a MUST HAVE! )

Big wardrobe =P

Couch by the window

( so i can read and fall asleep )

Window Seats

( for sleeping, reading, eating, camwhoring purposes)

full- body mirror

( for camwhoring and self- reflecting purposes )

Bar Area

( for obvious reasons )

cool stereo system

all rite tat is all, i guess i'll go back to the books =/

wish me luck~

here's a question for u guys out there :

what must haves u want in ur future home?

Lalalalalalalalalala~~

2009-10-28T17:38:00.000-07:00

its been seven days since that faithful day...

if i recalled it was raining around 4pm....

It was that moment that i've realised being with you, brings me the greatest joy in my life.. =)

Happy 1st weekiversary baby~~~

Thank you for being in my life =)

This not a love story, its a story about love

2009-10-24T22:37:00.000-07:00

500 DAYS OF SUMMER

MY FAVOURITE MOVIE

WATCH IT OR U DIE...

Ps : i need to study... seriously.....

Smile with me =)

2009-10-23T06:02:00.000-07:00

for there she is~ =P

the one who accepts my gayness, my vainity, my theatrical notions as who i am and still love me~ =)

she is my one and only BABY

LOVE YOU~~~~~ =)

There's no way out, i gotta hold you somehow

2009-10-19T07:19:00.000-07:00

Last week of college, finally arrived... speechless....

terlalu cepat.... =(

AAR songs now stuck in my head

finals coming in like 2 weeks.....

belum start studying.....

bagus!!.....

jit siang said that i got a chance to get into Harvard....

this random blog post sounds like random TWEETER posts

ok...tat is all....

random blasts from the past

THE KARAOKE-TOR

2009-10-13T02:20:00.000-07:00

come with me if you want to sing.....

Today was quite productive... or .. was supposed to be productive

skipped college today , supposed to study at home... supposed....

so here's what i really did today :

downloaded these 2 albums and karaoked myself away in my room till i lost my voice.

Khalil Fong ( R&B +Soul )

Crowd Lu ( somewhat like jason mraz acoustic style)

Talented artists they are.... go ahead and check it out =)

Yesterday.......

Was having my late afternoon nap as usual, then i got bitten by some enormous fly-like insect and now my left hand got swollen patch..

Moral of the story : all insect deserved to be squashed, smacked, spanked >=)

The day before yesterday.......

Went shopping in KLCC due to ISETAN SALE

bought loads of goodies , it was orgasmic ( yes.. it was good as a sexual climax )

8 days from now.....

college's ending, =(

this rollercoaster ride is finally coming to a close....

many high times, many low times, and of cuz.. the very very high times =D

2 weeks after today.......

FINALS!! shld be studying now.... haha

that is all

and lately i've been walking

2009-10-06T04:27:00.000-07:00

Sunday was neighbourhood's Black Out Day.... it was hot

Way way back earlier on sept, my cousin's wedding

spot me?

College's ending soon, dang too fast wei.... oh well~

Huzzah

2009-10-04T03:52:00.000-07:00

i failed my undang

tat is all

2009-09-26T19:34:00.000-07:00

what a perfect way to end the holidays =)

i want to eat smelly toufu =(

I'm a drama king

2009-09-24T18:47:00.000-07:00

whether u like it or not...

hohoho

Shoutout:

24/9

Happy 18 Birthday Elle !! =D

Went out with elle, karven and jits in bangsar yesterday afternoon....twas fun.. hope tat elle can get her perfect dress soon =)

AT night, went out with college friends over to MOS celebrate Aaron (NG) 's belated birthday =D, tat was my official first clubbing experience... fun it was, quite tiring though especially after the clubbing =/

oh also

22/9

Happy birthday to Aaron as well =)

rather disturbing tat this is the only photo i took with him 1 on 1

tat is all

p.s : still cant find my ic =(

update: HUZZAH I FOUND MY IC =D turns out my ic has been out of my wallet since trials as i found it lying in a pile of trials paper...

Tired

2009-09-20T07:32:00.000-07:00

tired of everyting, i juz want to stop and yet i want to stay...

TIRING WEEKEND WEI

Friday night was high school reunion nothing big, nice to see everyone again =)

Saturday- went down under to Segamat, Johor, to attend cousin's wedding

Hari Raya = epic 6 hour journey

Sunday- yet another epic journey going back up, stopped by in Melaka for abit....reached home drained like after maths + accounting class

Next Sat- wedding ceremony once again (segamat was for the bride side ) , guess who is performing for the happy couple? ==

anybody have idea which love songs sounds good in violin??

Shoutout:

My "daughter" is AWESOME~~ she ROCKS =D

2009-09-17T06:20:00.000-07:00

i m getting fat....

i think its the HO family guy curse

skinny like a stick when young, expands as u grow older =(

proven by my grandfather, uncle, father

i need to swim .. someone teman me? =(

Tell me when will you be mine

2009-09-14T07:52:00.000-07:00

Tell me quando quando quando

first day of trials was okay i guess,

twas ok i guess, gave it all out, now just hope for the best

shit on ESL (english, which i have failed for good knows how many times) and Maths a subject that i was never meant to pass.

anyways, back on the 12th Sept, went out to PRIME in Le Meridien for dinner...

so here's what we ordered.

Green Tea Soba Noodles with Terriyaki Kobe Beef (Sister)

Lobster with Grilled Lamb (Dad)

Boneless Loin Beef with leafy green salad and potato wedges (Mom)

300g Grilled Beef

With complementary side dish ( Me)

Dinner was gastronomical, the bill was astronomical =O

and i realised that my sis (Zoe) is a poser

Poser on a glass chair

Poser with a candle

Cutest Poser in the whole world =D

side note : can tell me why Evian mineral water costs rm26 per bottle??!!

I have a soft spot for cute things =)

2009-09-12T03:40:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday Alveena =D

yesterday night was magical~~ (sounds wrong doesnt it? =P )

2009-09-12T02:38:00.000-07:00

You ask for more just because i can give you more

2009-09-09T05:33:00.000-07:00

not exactly the brighter days of my life

but nyeh.. i'll live

some random blast from the past

she gonna munch u

A sudden goodbye

2009-09-07T07:54:00.000-07:00

Today was fun, went out with elle and the gang to the curve... twas fun =)

Moments ago, i received a terrible news

Angeline, our previous housemaid has passed away due to breast cancer.. =(

May God rest her soul =/

That would be enough till the end of time

2009-09-05T08:52:00.000-07:00

today was quite productive... watched JT concert on youtube the whole day

yes he is by far one of my favourite artist =)

talented, charismatic the whole package.

Until the end of time...

epic song... beautiful with piano... hence my project for today was.....

haha well u cant blame me for trying.... =)

its always fun for me to learn some nice song to play on violin or the piano, music is an important part of my life~~~

unfortunately, due to the absents of proper piano lessons, ( my piano teacher is youtube..go figure) it sounded clumsy and not smooth =(

well thats all for now, tomorrow's project ,,,

to capture a new profile picture with my camera !!!

oh and do some assignment on the way =)

P.S. : Today while playing violin , i broke my e string again =( this is the 2357489th time tat i broke it, what is wrong with me or my violin? anyone care to enlighthen me? =/

2009-09-04T07:41:00.001-07:00

where is everybody? =(

2009-09-04T06:24:00.000-07:00

I’m sorry, I did not mean to hurt my little girl
It's beyond me, I cannot carry the weight of the heavy world
So goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, goodnight
Goodnight, goodnight, goodnight, goodnight
Goodnight, hope that things work out all right

Accurate, no?

2009-09-03T03:06:00.000-07:00

The Inspirer

As an ENFP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system.

ENFPs are warm, enthusiastic people, typically very bright and full of potential. They live in the world of possibilities, and can become very passionate and excited about things. Their enthusiasm lends them the ability to inspire and motivate others, more so than we see in other types. They can talk their way in or out of anything. They love life, seeing it as a special gift, and strive to make the most out of it.

ENFPs have an unusually broad range of skills and talents. They are good at most things which interest them. Project-oriented, they may go through several different careers during their lifetime. To onlookers, the ENFP may seem directionless and without purpose, but ENFPs are actually quite consistent, in that they have a strong sense of values which they live with throughout their lives. Everything that they do must be in line with their values. An ENFP needs to feel that they are living their lives as their true Self, walking in step with what they believe is right. They see meaning in everything, and are on a continuous quest to adapt their lives and values to achieve inner peace. They're constantly aware and somewhat fearful of losing touch with themselves. Since emotional excitement is usually an important part of the ENFP's life, and because they are focused on keeping "centered", the ENFP is usually an intense individual, with highly evolved values.

An ENFP needs to focus on following through with their projects. This can be a problem area for some of these individuals. Unlike other Extraverted types, ENFPs need time alone to center themselves, and make sure they are moving in a direction which is in sync with their values. ENFPs who remain centered will usually be quite successful at their endeavors. Others may fall into the habit of dropping a project when they become excited about a new possibility, and thus they never achieve the great accomplishments which they are capable of achieving.

Most ENFPs have great people skills. They are genuinely warm and interested in people, and place great importance on their inter-personal relationships. ENFPs almost always have a strong need to be liked. Sometimes, especially at a younger age, an ENFP will tend to be "gushy" and insincere, and generally "overdo" in an effort to win acceptance. However, once an ENFP has learned to balance their need to be true to themselves with their need for acceptance, they excel at bringing out the best in others, and are typically well-liked. They have an exceptional ability to intuitively understand a person after a very short period of time, and use their intuition and flexibility to relate to others on their own level.

Because ENFPs live in the world of exciting possibilities, the details of everyday life are seen as trivial drudgery. They place no importance on detailed, maintenance-type tasks, and will frequently remain oblivous to these types of concerns. When they do have to perform these tasks, they do not enjoy themselves. This is a challenging area of life for most ENFPs, and can be frustrating for ENFP's family members.

An ENFP who has "gone wrong" may be quite manipulative - and very good it. The gift of gab which they are blessed with makes it naturally easy for them to get what they want. Most ENFPs will not abuse their abilities, because that would not jive with their value systems.

ENFPs sometimes make serious errors in judgment. They have an amazing ability to intuitively perceive the truth about a person or situation, but when they apply judgment to their perception, they may jump to the wrong conclusions.

ENFPs who have not learned to follow through may have a difficult time remaining happy in marital relationships. Always seeing the possibilities of what could be, they may become bored with what actually is. The strong sense of values will keep many ENFPs dedicated to their relationships. However, ENFPs like a little excitement in their lives, and are best matched with individuals who are comfortable with change and new experiences.

Having an ENFP parent can be a fun-filled experience, but may be stressful at times for children with strong Sensing or Judging tendancies. Such children may see the ENFP parent as inconsistent and difficult to understand, as the children are pulled along in the whirlwind life of the ENFP. Sometimes the ENFP will want to be their child's best friend, and at other times they will play the parental authoritarian. But ENFPs are always consistent in their value systems, which they will impress on their children above all else, along with a basic joy of living.

ENFPs are basically happy people. They may become unhappy when they are confined to strict schedules or mundane tasks. Consequently, ENFPs work best in situations where they have a lot of flexibility, and where they can work with people and ideas. Many go into business for themselves. They have the ability to be quite productive with little supervision, as long as they are excited about what they're doing.

Because they are so alert and sensitive, constantly scanning their environments, ENFPs often suffer from muscle tension. They have a strong need to be independent, and resist being controlled or labelled. They need to maintain control over themselves, but they do not believe in controlling others. Their dislike of dependence and suppression extends to others as well as to themselves.

ENFPs are charming, ingenuous, risk-taking, sensitive, people-oriented individuals with capabilities ranging across a broad spectrum. They have many gifts which they will use to fulfill themselves and those near them, if they are able to remain centered and master the ability of following through.

Where she go?

2009-08-30T09:07:00.000-07:00

a week ago , the maid went back home to visit her sick dying mother in philipines

today, she is supposed to come back from her visit.

We all went to the airport today to pick her up

she didnt show up...

its rather sad and discouraging......

whenever u trust someone they just take advantage of you...

what has the world become to ? nothing more than lies and masks?

Maybe its true

2009-08-29T03:37:00.000-07:00

maybe its true, that i cant live without you,

maybe two, is better than one,

BLG FEVER man, thanks to world stage and their new song- "Two is better than One"

Courtesy of WEN CHIAN, thx~~~~~~~ =)

got 2 version of this song from ( two version is better than one version)
one is BLG only the other wan is duet with Taylor Swifts

EPIC!!

i realised something, whenever i find a song that i really like i will:

1) listen it over and over again for the next few days
2) look up the lyrics on net
3) sing the song outloud in my room when there is no one at home till i have a severe sore throat =D

I want KARAOKE!! =(

well, weekends are here and i m still buried with tons of assignment =(
but this song will help me get through it~ =)

a maidless week

2009-08-25T07:08:00.001-07:00

my maid went back to philipines for a week =(

so the house is maidless for the week,

dish washing , toilet cleaning are now back to haunt me once again

oh btw today was a good day , 3 out of 6 assignments has been cleared =)

but still quite hectic in the near future.... TRIALS~~~

seriously need to unwind and chill wei....... =(

how bout a nice weekend in an apartment of my own?

tat would have been nice.... =)

i love my life

2009-08-24T07:12:00.000-07:00

holidays are gone

college work is burying me

economics presentation tomorrow

psychology test tomorrow

moral final exams soon

Accounting report and presentation next

follow up by a Maths Direct investigation and Common Test

not to mention Trials after all these crap

Conclusion:

S.A.M = Self Abusive Matriculation

and

I WANT JERSEY CARDIGANSSSSSSS

I'm a whim

2009-08-17T07:07:00.000-07:00

it's a good morning

badminton with Koh, Jason and Sze Kei today...

twas good, very exhausted, i reconfirmed my inability to be involved in any sports or vigorous physical activity = =

the journey towards the destination.

MR Koh

MR Jason

And Me

oh how excited i was.

zeee court

Setting up the net ( left)

setting up the net (right)

Getting ready!!

unfortunately, no pics of the badminton game were taken. =(

i was trashed by this girl here for the whole day.... =(

after the match

Mr Lim trying to be a good sport

Potential ambassador for soft beverages?

notice the other character in the pic

after badminton, we went over to carefour.....

and on the way..

Mr Lim discovered his talent in photography

the gang

had curry chicken rice and chicken rice, it was good or i was very hungry

after tat we resume taking pics

can u find her?

Mr Lim have done it again... nice photo...

on the side note:

check out this cutie, pixie lott... she's an eye candy =)

tat is all... signing off...

A man gives many question marks, however,

2009-08-13T02:30:00.000-07:00

a woman is a whole mystery.

Father once told me
"we must involve ourselves in profound thinking at all times to give meaning to our life."

and so i shall spend some time in a day to induce myself in profound thinking sessions....

i came across this quote the other day,

"Women get the last word in every argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument."

when i first read it , i burst out of laughter....

Women have greater ego than most men do nowadays

They just cant stand the thought of losing in an argument, especially when it is with a man

Things were much different back in the days, women were the more passive submissive of the two gender, and of course they are also discriminated and oppressed by men at those days.
i think it's men fault in the first place because women, after being oppressed or should i say "bullied" by men, once gotten much more freedom and rights , they tend to get back at us.

"A women forgives but never forget"

Something like a spring after being compressed for so long then suddenly the weight has been lifted, so of course they bounce back. i guess its karma for guys.

Nowadays women are much more aggressive, and also developed unique skill of listening in which whenever a guy makes a remark, they have the ability to reassess, reinterpret the information as offensive not only to herself but also to the whole female gender.

for example:

"Hey, can you play _____ ( insert sports or any form of entertainment ) ? lets go do it together one day, don't worry i'll give you a hand =) "

then this friendly invitation would then be transferred and interpreted by the female species as

" WTH , that cocky shit, think he is soooo good in _______( insert sports or any form of entertainment) what an asshole"

As conclusion, i think it is a very hyper delicate situation whenever guys interact with women.

girls, if what i say its wrong, please do enlighten me,
and if u are offended by this, oh well, its my blog.... =P

on the side note :

this is alexander rybak, winner of the eurovision competition 2009
talented in many musical aspect, incorporates violin into his songs which i find its rather rare.
go look him up =)

Bobby-licious =P

2009-08-08T22:58:00.000-07:00

well few days ago , a friend of mine flew over to AMERICA to study aboard
his name was

MR Ethan Ang Eu Tchen.... aka BOB

BOB was named BOB for many reasons....

one of them is of cuz it stands for Badan Orang Besar....

The first gathering was at GARDENS several days ago

Group Pics =)

there we are..... =P

we juz laze around at sushi zanmai , then afterwards watched ghost of the girlfriend past

twas okay... quite funny , and also educational at some point =P

we also made several new discoveries.........

the girls tried SAKE for the first time!!

Bob smiled...

Finger Masks are in trend

Sze kei decided to get a specs frame like mine

Jit Siang like to ruin me and Francis moment

Bob's MAN BOOBS are nice to grope. =P

Bob is afraid to get close contact with girls ( i wonder why?.... )

and now group pics.... =P

Epic Candid Shoot

The next gathering is an all boys night out around our place.....

met up during dinner, then we played the take out a wood piece then put it back ontop game ( i dunnoe wat its called ok.._

Boom... double the height double the thrill

oh oh....he tries to take out the piece....

Boom!! epic fail..... awwww poor Jason

Eric's most radiant smile.....

Guys with nothing to do ==

We clean up our messes... (sort of)

Boom, BOB paying his last friday malaysian meal

Afterwards we went to 7 eleven where the boys discover the importance of camwhore

They liked it....

Then we proceed to the park where we continue the boys camwhoring frenzy.

BOB and the MOON

i make people happy...=)

Boom.... Backstreet Boys sial.....

SMKDP Entourage

Look how happy we are......

come on......

Spread the love people....

We saw....

We Bonded....

it was a fun night....

then the day came

We went to KLIA to send him off.. =(

of cuz we camwhore on the way...

model attempt..failed.....

model attempt 2.... failed....

Masks are hot now...

Still scared of the girls... how will he survive in US?

The guys

Once more...

Our Joanne decided to baked some goodbye cookies for bob (awwww)

He tried...

Boom!! Heaven on Earth...

Sze Kei made a nice farewell card for BOB =)

Pro..... guess which one is me... serious help me..

and behind...

mine said : May u be deflowered ASAP =P

he was touched... cant u see it in his expression?

bye bye bob..... =)

and there he goes.....

watch out AMERICA.... BOB IS COMING...

*cue dramatic music*

things tat i am grateful of...

2009-08-08T07:50:00.000-07:00

these are the moments in my life that i m happy to be a guy =)

AMEN!

Gisele Bundchen..... timeless beauty.....

Alessandra Ambrosio~~~~~~~ truly AA+ standard hot

Adriana Lima *drools*

Bar Refaeli
Leonardo d'caprio left gisele for her....
who could blame him...
we should thank him
for one, introducing us to this gorgeous beauty
and second, putting gisele back on the market (it was brief though =( )

Marisa Miller... ah..... dun u guys have the urge?

and for my favourite eye candy......

>

Miranda Kerr.....
for the love of god... thank god.....
she is ridiculously cute and downright h-h-h-hot.....
how can one woman be cute and hot at the same time??
the insanity.....
*sobs*

i m not exactly a religious person but
thank u god , for creating them....
they truly angels =)

PS: after exposing myself to these work of art , i doubt i will be looking at girls the same way from now =(

I killed 3 mosquitoes today

2009-08-07T21:14:00.000-07:00

hey people,

its been awhile since i closed down my previous blog.

anyways, i m back on.

things have gone crazy nowdays

my class is under quarantine.... dum dum dummmm

so here i m rotting away

and i have assignments and test coming up next week

fantastic....

on another note,

i hate mosquitoes

but ppl dun seems to like it whenever i kill them....

they say "karma will get u" or something like tat...

so now i have a perfect reason to justify my actions

since i m like under quarantined, mosquitoes who sucked my blood are also possibly infected ,

hence, to stop the spreading of the disease i have to kill them.......

HAH!